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I’m 25 and Still a Virgin

Q:
How do I tell a guy that I’m 25 and still a virgin? And what would you think about a girl you want to have sex with who tells you that?

A:
This has also come up before, but again, it bears repeating: Just tell him. There’s no point in keeping it a secret if you think it will have a profound and possible negative effect on how your relationship may go. For me? I may shy away from dating a 25-year-old virgin only because I am aware that if we ever connect sexually, there could be an emotional expectation. Men know that if we are your first, it’s a pretty important thing. Some of us don’t want to be that pivotal of a person, and will balk at it early on in a relationship.

Do Men Prefer Big or Small Breasts?

Q:
Do men prefer big or small breasts?

A:
I’m sure you can imagine that if you ask a group of men that question, you will find yourself with a multitude of answers. There is no one answer. Everybody likes what he likes. I will answer this for myself, to give you an idea of where my personal taste lies. For me, it is a simple rule: Real, little to medium; fake, big. I don’t have an issue with size at all, just what they’re made up of. However, if I’m really into the girl, it doesn’t matter at all. On a purely superficial level, I am not a huge fan of big real breasts. They flop all over and fall into the arms and just seem like a huge mess to me. I type this with a smile because it sounds funny, but it also happens to be true. I like a firm-and-in-place set that is visually pleasing as well as functional. Visual stimulation in the bedroom is as important to me as the physical.

Achieving an Erection after Cocaine

Q:
What is the best way to achieve an erection after an eight-ball of cocaine?

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One of life’s great mysteries. How to get a handle on a drug that makes you want to fuck, but prevents you from doing so. Women tend to not have an issue with it, so we as men are even more screwed … or not screwed. You know what I mean. I know some guys claim Cialis or Viagra is the way to go here, but I always found myself with a splitting headache from it—and not the good head. My suggestion? Get really good at cunnilingus. It’s your best bet in terms of staying in the bedroom and being able to perform on any level. That or try the pills. For me? I gave up the drugs. I found that I would rather just fuck than spend a bunch of money to not be able to fuck, sleep, or think rationally.

Why Do Men Seek Out Sex from Other Women?

Q:
Why is it that when a man has a perfectly healthy, pleasure-filled, fantastic sex life with one woman, he feels the need to seek out other women for sex?

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I knew the day would come when some body would ask me this. I’m definitely not going to make any friends here, but I will answer your question. Keep in mind, this answer doesn’t apply to all men, just most. (I’m sure your man is a loyal and dedicated guy who would never dream of even thinking about anyone else. That also goes for any other women reading this.) The reason a man seeks sex from other women is because no matter how in love he is, no matter how hot his girl is, no matter how great his sex life is, nothing compares to new. Think of this old joke: Two guys are at a bar, where a hot waitress takes their order. One guy says, “Damn, she has everything I look for in a woman.” His friend asks, “What’s that?” “She’s not my wife.” It’s funny because it’s true.

Fooling Around with a Married Person

Q:
If you fool around—even just once—with someone who is married, is there any way he can actually like or respect you? (Assuming he liked or respected you in the first place.)

A:
That really depends on the people and the situation. Personally, I say yes. Then again, I am a firm believer in being polyamorous, which is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of all the parties involved. Anyway, this idea of “respect” is like a buzzword thrown around when dealing with sexual matters. For me? I really don’t think the idea of respect gaining or waning is even an issue. I have never respected anyone more or less depending on when or how we have had sex. I think what women pick up on is the fact that the man in question may not try as hard to impress after sex, as he has already had it. But the respect factor is rarely even considered. I think what you may be feeling is a self-respect issue. That certainly comes into play when having sex with a married man. Think about it.

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